Your engine has a direct drive helical gear set, which could account for your cam gear walking off. On vw engines, that I know well, we used bolt on cam gears and full can thrust bearings. I am not intimately familiar with setting or adjusting the cam end play in a merc 140, never had my 140 apart, but you will need to understand it well. I wonder if any resistance to the valve train that would cause the cam gear to walk off. As for any metal parts in the pan, the only way to be sure is pull the pan, but a strong speaker magnet on the bottom of the pan could help. They also make magnets for the oil filter, but this is after the pump. Keep us apprised, and good luck Brandon.