THANKS ALL, appreciate the help and words!
Doug--that's true, didn't think about it, but the insert can probably be used again, not much damage, maybe even the metal with the right person working it.
Jeff--thanks for the info, I'll check em out and let you know if I run into any roadblocks that I can't get through.
Chris--hmmmmm, WhiteBear, huh? I see David used them too. I'll keep that in my hip pocket... I'm talking to a guy now in Double Oak TX, J&J Sports, comes highly recommended by a senior member of our outboard club, been doing this for 40 years. Sent pics, talk to him about it, now waiting on a rough estimate, but I may be pulling it to him this week sometime. BTW--I see your truck Chris, sorry bout that!... especially tough when this stuff happens to classic vehicles in great shape! Again, nobody hurt though... that's a positive!
David--OMG, you hit the nail on the head... going through some of the feelings right now, but it's getting a little easier getting some indications that it can be fixed properly. I'm ok until I see it in the garage. I'm looking forward to the point where I can look back at the pictures and smile, MAYBE.